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You Can’t Sell What She Doesn’t Want
Is your offer solving a problem or creating one?
I’m writing this from a relatively local establishment that used to be called Atlanta Bread Company. You’ve got one in your town, too, it just probably goes by a different name.
You know the ones. Soup. Salad. Soft jazz. Maybe a pastry if you’re feeling crazy. Half and half combos for days.
Except now, our location has been re-imagined (I’m sure by a man lmao) into... Atlanta Bread Company and Bar.

groundbreaking
And I’m like… did anyone ask for this? Who is out here whispering "I could really go for a lobster bisque and a double tequila neat" at 1:00 PM on a Tuesday?
No shade if that’s your thing, but it’s giving:
pivot based on boredom, not demand
adding bells and whistles no one wanted
trying to be different instead of better
One of the most basic (but most often skipped) steps in sales is confirming there’s a real, burning desire for what you’re offering.
Not “I think people would like this.”
Not “My cousin said I should try this.”
Not “It worked for that girl I follow on Instagram.”
But actual proof of demand.
We see it all the time with clients: people who were struggling to sell, not because their skills were off, but because the offer was solving a problem no one was trying to solve. Or solving the wrong version of a problem.
Before you make another tweak to your sales page or spend another dollar on ads… take a beat. Ask yourself these 3 questions:
#1. Is this what she wants… or just what I want to create?
#2. Have I seen proof (like DMs, comments, search trends, or real conversations) that this is an urgent desire?
#3. Am I solving the most painful, most immediate version of her problem?
Because if not, you might be one espresso martini away from a very confusing rebrand.
Xo, The Salesgirls
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